How to Manage Sleep During a Growth Spurt

Learn practical strategies to help your child sleep better during growth spurts when their sleep patterns naturally change.

  1. Recognize the signs of a growth spurt. Growth spurts affect sleep in predictable ways. Your child might suddenly resist bedtime, wake up frequently during the night, or sleep much longer than usual. They may also seem hungrier, more emotional, or complain of growing pains in their legs or arms. These changes in sleep and behavior often happen together and typically last anywhere from a few days to several weeks.
  2. Adjust bedtime and wake times temporarily. During a growth spurt, be flexible with sleep schedules. If your child is falling asleep later, try moving bedtime 15-30 minutes earlier to compensate. Allow them to sleep in when possible, as their body genuinely needs more rest. Don't worry about perfect schedule adherence during this time - focus on ensuring they get enough total sleep hours rather than sticking rigidly to usual times.
  3. Create an extra-calming bedtime routine. Strengthen your bedtime routine to help their overstimulated nervous system wind down. Add calming activities like gentle stretching, reading an extra story, or playing soft music. Keep the bedroom cool, dark, and quiet. Consider a warm bath before bed, which can help soothe any physical discomfort and signal that it's time to sleep.
  4. Address physical discomfort. Growing pains are real and can keep kids awake. Gentle leg and arm massages before bed can help ease discomfort. A warm compress on achy areas or a warm bath can provide relief. Make sure your child's pajamas aren't too tight, as their body may be temporarily sensitive. Keep their bedroom at a comfortable temperature, as kids going through growth spurts often feel too hot or too cold.
  5. Manage increased hunger and thirst. Growth spurts trigger increased appetite, and hungry kids don't sleep well. Offer a healthy bedtime snack that includes protein and complex carbohydrates, like cheese and crackers or a small bowl of cereal with milk. Keep a small water bottle by their bed in case they wake up thirsty, but limit fluids right before bedtime to prevent frequent bathroom trips.
  6. Stay consistent with boundaries. While you're being flexible with timing, maintain your usual bedtime rules and expectations. Continue with your regular routine steps, even if you're adjusting the timing. This helps your child feel secure and makes it easier to return to normal patterns once the growth spurt ends. Be patient but firm about staying in bed and following bedtime rules.