How to Use the Library for a Family of Six

A complete guide to making the most of your local library with multiple children of different ages.

1. Plan your visit ahead of time. Call or check your library's website before you go to learn about their layout, programs, and policies. Find out if they have separate children's areas for different age groups, story time schedules, and computer time limits. Ask about their policy for unattended children, as this varies by library. Many libraries require children under a certain age to stay with adults at all times. Check if your library offers family programs that work for mixed age groups, and note their busiest and quietest times to plan accordingly.
2. Get everyone their own library card. Most libraries allow children of any age to get their own card with a parent's signature. Having individual cards teaches responsibility and lets each child track their own borrowing history. It also increases your family's total borrowing limit - instead of being limited to one adult's borrowing privileges, you'll have six people's worth of books, movies, and other materials. Take a recent utility bill or other proof of address, and bring identification for yourself when signing up your children.
3. Establish library behavior expectations. Before your first visit, talk with your children about library rules and expectations. Explain that libraries are quiet spaces where people come to read, study, and work. Practice using 'library voices' (whispers) at home. Discuss staying together as a family and not wandering off alone. Let them know they should ask you or a librarian for help finding things rather than searching by themselves. Set clear expectations about taking care of books and materials, and explain the consequences of late returns or damaged items.
4. Create a system for managing materials. With six family members checking out books, you'll need organization to avoid lost items and late fees. Consider assigning each family member a specific colored library bag or basket to keep their items separate at home. Write each person's name and due date on a sticky note and attach it to their materials. Keep a family library calendar or use your phone to track all due dates. Designate one spot in your home where all library materials live when not being read - this prevents books from getting scattered throughout the house.
5. Make the most of library programs and services. Libraries offer much more than books. Look into story times for younger children, craft programs, summer reading challenges, and educational workshops. Many libraries have homework help programs, computer classes, and teen activities. Don't overlook services like printing, copying, and free WiFi. Some libraries loan out more than books - you might be able to borrow puzzles, games, musical instruments, or even tools. Ask your librarian about interlibrary loans if they don't have something you're looking for.
6. Navigate the library efficiently with multiple children. Start your visit in the children's section where younger kids can browse picture books while older ones help or explore nearby areas. If your library allows it, split up briefly with older children visiting the teen or adult sections while you stay with younger ones. Use library strollers or wagons if available to help transport books and keep toddlers contained. Plan for about 30-45 minutes for your visit - long enough to browse and select materials, but not so long that children get restless. Always do a final headcount and materials check before leaving.